A woman in me and women around me

India is a land of culture where women are goddesses and worshiped. To its extreme in the same country women are treated with biased. Perhaps that’s the way we all are brought up. Including me, we all are egomaniacal males in some way or other.

I may be lap sided, but girls are most wonderful creation of god. A girl child is a gift and remains perennial sweet. Gifted with the ability to give birth, it’s someone who undergoes excruciating pain every month. They play major part in the upbringing of a child. Perhaps nature created them in such a way; they are gifted with endurance and forbearance. I am surrounded with all such beautiful ladies. Mother, sisters, aunties, nieces, colleagues, girl friend and I love them all. They made be what I am ! World will be unimaginable without them. But still the society is involved in heinous crimes against women. They abort them before they are born, rape them, sell them, molest them, beat them, hurt them and it’s a shame for all males who claims to run the world.

It is equally a fact we all are involved in a little lesser crimes to neglect women, torture them, humiliate them, subdue them or disrespect them. We have habit of exploiting anyone without power. We judge our women too early and suffocate their individuality. And all are involved in these lesser crimes right from parents, boyfriends, husbands and children. To quote some few…

If a girl is involved in a relationship its taboo to marry her, She becomes characterless. If a boy had a past its his childishness. Phew!! Even a boy knows he is involved in past relationships he will expect a “sati savitri” virgin! Weird!! Man keep lurching his owl eye on every next girl but when some others look on their sisters, wives or girlfriends they cannot bear and world becomes filthy place. Why? Boy in a family can have freedom to choose his partner but a girl in the same family can’t…! Isn’t this illogical? Husbands can have all liberty but not the wife. Why? It should be same on either side. Men are cynical and lusty when it comes to feminism. I have heard discussing males some of the vulgar-est comments on women. For them it’s fun and common to upload such vulgar texts, images, clips or pictures without a single thought.

Why can’t we respect women? Why can’t we become decent to them? Why can’t we mind our languages? Its not at all “put on” behavior. It comes within. Its okay to look girls or to attract by cupid sword. Its okay to put some wooing acts, or flirt a little. But its not at all cool to pass comments, torture them or to hurt their self respects. And its neither masculine too. Aged makes faces & youth drools & make comment when girls wear exposable clothes. They give lame excuses to molesting or a rape to the exposable clothes girls wears. But it’s rightly said “If you are diabetic, it is not the fault of shopkeeper to hide their sweets from you”

Without women & their sanity the world would be very dull and messy place. Accept them; respect them as they are idol of greatness. Give feminism the respect they deserve. Be a man !!