Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Don't worry GET MARRIED... ;-)




A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds: "Wife wanted." Next day he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have mine."

                           Joke apart... Marriage - some courts it some dodges it....With the fast changing and competitiveness around people nowadays don't want to confine themselves in marriages knuckles.. Thanks to our culture people here are still low urbane and prefers to get settled down at some point of time in their life... But actually You don't have to confine yourself to a cave and shun relationships to experience true liberation.....Liberation comes with marriage if you are with right person. Marriage too can become spiritual* 
(* Conditions applied)



          I remembered a joke....In every marriage functions my relatives used to pull my cheek and say "Now its your turn" Being annoyed in every funeral I attend,  I feel like to pull their cheeks and say " Its your turn now" !! Its a very personal & confined decision. I personally feel its very important to get married. Maturity comes with marriage. Its like..Don't waste your life on yourself. Either you do something for the welfare of mankind or get married.. Marry and you take care of people other than yourself. It will help to grow for sure. "If God had intended us to be alone, there would be more pleasure in massaging our own shoulders"


It will be equally interesting to look pros and cons of being in permanent relationships.. Lets examine what is being achieved
  • Its like laddoos in both hands..If it works out, you will lead a smooth and pleasant life and if does not work out, you could focus on your karm and become liberated and wiser. Either way you wins
  • You got to bear with your in-laws..This develops your interpersonal skills ;-)
  • You definitely learn to attend your in-laws functions whether you like it or not !! This develops your patience and helps to face any unwanted situation of life..
  • Any harsh words from your superior or boss is now bearable and flown from one ear to other. Marriage is like an ego crusher !
  • On serious note, marriage helps to unleash one potential energy. You learn to take responsibilities. And its the best thing about marriage. You learn to live for others. 
  • Your sexual energy is channelized towards dedicated partner. It will help to concentrate on your work and your potential can be used more productively..either fending off unwanted attention or seeking it.
Joke time : "The man approached the very beautiful woman in the large supermarket and asked, “You know, I’ve lost my wife here in the supermarket. Can you talk to me for a couple of minutes?” “Why?” “Because every time I talk to a beautiful woman my wife appears out of nowhere.”
  • You can retrieve to your higher spiritual goals with your partner more comfortably...
  • Once you settled down slowly you start to love your life and being responsible will start to take calculated risk...from business to any personal matters.



(to be continued...) 
Two-three points taken from suggestions..
1. Language will be taken care of and will be put it in simple way..
2. Definitely update blogs regularly (Subject to being fit mentally ;-P) 

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